I was reading about thinking yourself off to the point of orgasm on Virginmonoblogger’s blog post. At the end of learning about this alternative form of pleasure, there was a comment from of the readers. The reader referred to this method of orgasm as “lame” and “pointless”, she didn’t see the point…
“There are no health benefits. It doesn’t make you a better lover. If anything, it will probably set up a few (many) women to feel disappointed or frustrated.”
First off, reaching orgasm is always a health benefit in my book. It clears your mind body and soul!
Second, being a better lover isn’t just about satisfying someone else, but loving yourself as well. If you haven’t been able to experience orgasm and thinking yourself off is the only way to achieve it, then I will definitely say it makes you a better lover to yourself.
And last but not least, achieving orgasm in itself is frustrating for some women, so trying something new has a chance of a new outcome that might not be as frustrating. If you don’t have any problems getting off, frustration shouldn’t be what stops you from trying something new. Frustration should be what pushes you to succeed and what opens you up to learning more.
This is like saying trying a vibrator instead of a dildo is pointless. Or masturbating instead of partner sex is pointless. It is just another method for pleasure and orgasm.