..he least expects it. I don’t know what it is, but I love being the one to pounce my partner first.
One night, my boyfriend was working on his car in the driveway. I decided to surprise him by going down on him. I tried to be as hidden as possible, but I’m pretty sure the neighbors walking their dogs knew what was going on. It was exciting not only because it was an impulsive act, but because there was the fear of getting caught. There is also some excitement in being the object of someone else’s voyeuristic pleasures!
After a long day class and studying. Usually when I have to spend a whole day reading, writing or studying I make sure to take masturbation breaks to charge myself back up. The combination of hard work and foreplay all day means I’ve earned myself some business time in the sack.
When its make up sex. We’ve all heard of it, we’ve all probably had it. It took me a while to ever experience it though. I used to be too upset or too tired from being upset to ever want to have sex after a heated discussion. However, recently I have had the pleasure to partake in make up sex.
It’s magic is in the fact that you get to physically release all your frustration, but also feel close to your partner again. I’ve also found that the bigger the fight, the more sex you have. (I am in no way condoning that you should cheat just to have really great sex, I’m just saying it is nice when your relationship is lucky enough to come back from the fight.)
When we haven’t seen each other in a long time. My boyfriend and I used to do long distance, which I would never recommend to anyone, but we made it out okay. Our sex life was constrained to dirty emails/texts/letters/skype chats. We would talk about what we wanted to or do the next time one of us visited the other. When the weekend finally came, it was so thrilling. We would spend hours in bed pleasuring one another. The long distance gave us an excuse to indulge in bonding time between just us.
After a good workout. And shower, of course. I get that runners high feeling, which makes me happy and excited and desiring some carnal ravaging. After stretching I feel limber and relaxed and ready for whatever new technique is thrown at me. (nothing too crazy – I can’t put my leg over my head or anything.)
After reading and writing about sex all day and I finally get to have it myself!